
She must be 50 something yet still very pretty with golden hair and sharp features and she owned the stage as she performed her poem with passion. She pointed to her husband in the audience as she explained the next one was about him and her. And she read a beautiful tender piece that evoked vivid images of the two of them dancing together to tranquil music, alone in their living room.
I thought he was being the faithful supportive husband, being there to encourage her in her poetic endeavour. But no. He went up to the stage later to perform his piece too, for he too wrote. Taller with faded hair, he still had presence like her and commanded the stage like her as he explained his poem was about her.
Then he read it, words about her in a blue dress in a restaurant meandering through the menu but to him it didn’t matter what she ordered because… she was the dish. The audience laughed at his cheekiness and she admonished him affectionately.
That’s when I decided I wanted to be like them, I want to marry a writer, someone who even after decades of marriage later we’re writing poems about each other, performing them at open mic poetry events together, hers sweet and his teasing, making her laugh yet blush even after all these years.
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There was a range of talent at the open mic poetry event in Ilford library that evening two weeks ago, but the couple impressed me the most.




I’m a writer and artist married to an engineer who doesn’t “get” most of what I create and seldom reads what I write. Yet even though it is all foreign to him, he has always supported and respected the importance of my work and my creative process. That’s it’s own kind of romance.
Thanks for dropping by V-Grrrl. Sounds like you have a lovely marriage, and definitely it is just as romantic when the other half doesn’t get what you’re doing but still gives their utmost support.
My post doesn’t negate that, I guess I was just enthralled by the couple at that event
Lol…and all of a sudden you want to marry a writer? Goodness me. Their charm must have been so strong to sway such a strong decision as marriage. I enjoyed the read.
Cheers!
They were very charming indeed!
Of course, if the right man came along and wasn’t a writer, I wouldn’t say no, lol.
But watching the couple perform their poetry for and about each other was stunningly beautiful.
To turn a phrase of Simone Weil’s on its head ‘We have to believe in the love who is like the true love in everything except that it does not exist, for I have not yet reached the point where love exists’.
Auden heard the voice of the Divine, always an oceanic whis(m)per:
There is no love;
There are only the various envies, all of them sad.